Or so i claim, i have been trying to be domesticated ever since sunday. Seeing all my friends doing house chores put me to shame..heh.

I have been busy working + gyming in the day. Coming back home to try cleaning up my house in parts , tidying up my wardrobe, putting old clothes and shoes on archive. The list rants on.

It was frustrating last night when zj and I were trying to fix up yahoo messenger and skype. All went well till my cam refused to interface with my mac. For the verry first time, God forbids a mac fan breathe thy words, ; " I wish i am a window user!!"

Arghh...

Back to work ! :=)

I am still happy.

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The only 2 pics i took in hk :=) Too busy. heh

獅子山下

容祖兒 did 獅子山下 with 羅文 in her latest album. I think its digitally touched up to include 羅文 's singing in it. i like it!
Take a look a the MV:
MV

:=)

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I am happy! Lovely Sat.

I bought this Eason Chan cd after karaoke session with zj in hk on tue.

There are a couple of songs in this album penned by Wyman that I adore. I am statrting to appreciate his talent. I love the no frill packaging of the cd. It comes in a square envelope with 2 smaller envelope , CD + DVD and a pictorial lyrics book.







為何舊知己　在最後　變不到老友
不知你是我敵友　已沒法望透　被推著走　跟著生活流
來年陌生的　是昨日　最親的某某＊

生死之交當天不知罕有　到你變節了　至覺未夠
多想一天彼此都不追究　相邀再次喝酒　待葡萄成熟透
但是命運入面每個邂逅　一起走到了　某個路口
是敵與是友　各自也沒有自由　位置變了　各有隊友

- 最佳損友, 陳奕迅 [填詞：黃偉文]

i am back and happy!

I have wanting to blog the past few days but was simply to busy and lazy :=)

Going HK during this lieu work period of mine , to both visit all my close HK pals and to shop a little.

Will be back coming Wed.

Till then folks!

Dinner and ice cold beer session with david and dave totally rocks ! :=)

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I incidentally stumbled into a gal fren's blog today. I felt kinda sad after reading it just now. I am not the slightest sad for myself but more for how things have turn out for her .

I would think that it must be searing for her to know that she can never relinquish her life's love. More than ever, she must be crushed that she had solely maneuver and fall to such pits.

For her to forgive herself. For her to let go of her past love. For her to know what she wants next. That are three considerable uphill tasks.

I hope she will turn out just fine. She really is a nice, harmless lass. Doesnt deserve this. No one should.

Dinner and ice cold beer session with david and dave totally rocks ! :=)

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I incidentally stumbled into a gal fren's blog today. I felt kinda sad after reading it just now. I am not the slightest sad for myself but more for how things have turn out for her .

I would think that it must be searing for her to know that she can never relinquish her life's love. More than ever, she must be crushed that she had solely maneuver and fall to such pits.

For her to forgive herself. For her to let go of her past love. For her to know what she wants next. That are three considerable uphill tasks.

I hope she will turn out just fine. She really is a nice, harmless lass. Doesnt deserve this. No one should.

I was having dinner with Kelvin just now. He was asking me if i have ever thought if my estranged relationship with my parents , will have any impact on my past and future relationships with my partner.

It got me a bit stumbled. No one has ever asked me this before. I gave it some serious thought as i was driving home just now.

I do think it does. To its very minute extent that it may be subconscious. I could recognise some signs in the previous relationship.

But usual me thinks that i am sure i can handle it and better the next time round ! :=)

When we characterize talk as hot air, we mean that what comes out of the speaker's mouth is only that. It is mere vapor. His speech is empty, without substance or content. his use of language, accordingly , does not contribute to the purpose it purports to serve. No more information is communicated than if the speaker had merely exhaled. There are similarities betwen hot air and excrement, incidentally, which make hot air seem an especially suitable equivalent to bullshit. - Harry G Frankfurt , On Bullshit

This is one interesing book i just finished reading last week. Had wanted to post this extract on it a few days back, but i was simply too busy and lazy. :=) This Princeton lecturer did a splendid job in writing this book. Its really not as dry as i had expected. You folks should check it out.

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It really is a conscious choice: to look forward or simply swirl in your past.

One of my HK pal [a.k.a Ah yi] called me yesterday. He was crying over the phone.Just suffered a break up.Lamenting what he should have done and not.[ Huh..i am the worst advisor in this arena] I did not know how i should react to it. Hence , i just kept silent and let him cry and whine.Most of the time, in cases like this , we simply just need a listening ear. Not really much of an advice you can give. [heh..i am speaking from experience] 35 years-old him should jolly know what to enact. Besides, a relationship is between two parties. I cant really downplay another , just to make the other feel better.

Anyway, Tony and Alan was telling me , in jest, to share tips to ah yi, on how i rebound, after a mere week.

Like i say. Its a conscious choice. More than anyrthing else, i have given my best shot the second time round. I dun want to waste a single more minute mopping over a indecisive man . But of course, for me to say this ; it means that he matters to me. But, I am really weary. It comes to the treshold where enough is more than enough.

So here I am. Conscious choice to move forward. At times, it may wear me down . But i am sure i will be fine , with all the ppl ard me.

As long as i know what i want. :=)

I am munching [ i -dunno-wat burger from macdonald's] as i am typing away. Klevin left it at the guard house , before headiing off to Johor with his pals. He can be super sweet. Even though macdonald is the last thing i will chew , i can taste the sweetness of the starch of the bread [ super corny analogy..heh]

I was chatting with him after booze session with shaun last night. I would want him to focus on his final exams. Before he starts work as a houseman next year, i thiink that should be his only priority. And even if things is gonna happen b/w us, it will definitely be after he graduates.Both for his sake, and for myself : to gradually get cleared of any emotional bugggages left. For now , let me just enjoy singlehood and the process of having breakfast at my doorstep!

I am trying to plan out a holiday in end-May/ early June.

Usual me - trying to sift out both shopping and sighseeing all in one place ..heh

I have a few options ,

1. Japan - travelling to Kyoto and all via JR Rail, with final stop at Tokyo for shopping.
2. Sri Lanka - No shopping here , but i want to experience the hillside scenery before travelling down to its coast for snorkel and dive.
3. London - Most of Michelangelo's paintings and scupltures are in exibit there till 25th june. Will tour and visit frens within London before taking a Maglev to Rome for shopping

Who do you folks think?

How many times can a man hurt you in a lifetime?
Searing thru your heart , as if its only logical to do so.
At 24, he won my heart.
At 25, he broke my heart.
At 26, he broke my heart again.

There is no culprit. We are a crimson pair - One inflict, the other indulged.

Any exuberant dreams of everlasting love are broken.

沒錯分手了　按你的需要
情人還未似我　彼此空間太少
又再分手了　我也得苦笑
談情如像遊戲　懂得的真太少
回望我為了初戀的傷勢　比較深
明白眼淚會不斷地漫遊　傷多幾次心
不緊要　最怕　麻木了　我的心
會傷感　我也感恩(亦放心)

- 情永落
歌手：側田
填詞：林夕



　

for you dar.

烏雲在我們心裡擱下一塊陰影
我聆聽沉寂已久的心情
清晰透明　就像美麗的風景
總在回憶裡才看的清

被傷透的心能不能夠繼續愛我
我用力牽起沒溫度的雙手
過往溫柔已經被時間上鎖
只剩揮散不去的難過

楓 - 周杰倫