iBliss :快乐和幸福的区别

Dar J taught me the difference between the two chinese words. He says it only differs in mandarin. However, in English, both only exemplify happiness. I want to share this with all of you. In my super-bad mandarin writing. Do bear with me. :-)
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快乐的追究是一个人可以达到的。秒小的快乐可以因最简单的事件引起。但幸福是两个人的。慢长的幸福须要经过错折和考验。不是一朝一稀的。

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I have been on the fast track ever since i came back from BKK. Today, i finally have some quiet time alone to pen down my thoughts.
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This morning,we went for an early breakfast with my dar J at our fave porridge stall and 油条. It was quiet serenity. I relished every single bit of it.

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I guess i am still learning , still trying to understand myself better, understand him better. I do not think its an easy feat. 'Commitment'..this word sounds so foreign to me. I guess i never thought i could ever find someone right and single.

After living under the same roof with V, i gathered that i am not the best person to live with. And now, living with dar J brought me to even greater heights of understanding. Perhaps ,like wat he says, i have been somewhat self centred. My life revolves around my self indulgence, my personal space, my rights, my wants etc. Never others. I only allow ppl in only at the time i want to. Shutting ppl out when work encompasses.

Dar is so bluntly right. When i am threading on rough water at work, i take my loved ones for granted. Work. It pre-determines my daily highs and lows.Well, the selfish me is , at least, conscious of my own flaws now!