The Dues of life

My very first attempt in using photoshop after uploading the software in my savvy iBook months ago. This was the plant i blogged about yesterday. I gave it a dark background, in contrast to the green of the sprouting leaves. [ J, if you still read my blog..see how beautiful the plant we bought has gotten! :-) ] Anyway, the photo editing technique was quite poorly done. Pardon me. My first attempt. Folks, i assure better to come!

Today was a lovely day. Babe , Casey and I had lunch. We went window shopping after which. It was great. Climax point was when we patronised Hour Glass looking for Chopard Happy Fish Watch! Its a whopping $9800 and they do not have stock for it now. But we got the chance to see the red one. Its a beauty! Even Casey says so! I am so in love with it now! Think i will work triple hard to buy that watch.Heh heh..Himbo conscious kicking in on how i am going to match my wardrobe with it! Hmm..think its new wardrobe time..Kidding lah!

After today's outing, I feel even more comfy with Babe and Casey. It's really family. :-) That warm feeling.

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Think Babe blogged about this before. Can love disappear with the snap of time? Can this actually happen or is that the result of repercussions of all the small trivial differences blown out of proportion? Is that person who loses that love streak be labelled The Cad of the relationship?

I think its rather relative. But i always think that both parties are to be blame for any breakdown. The victim that claims to have provided unconditional love may not be knowing wat the other party wants. On the other hand, the culprit may be feeling more hurtful of his loss of chemistry with his or her partner. A failed romance can never be the sole fault of a single party. Its not a pin pointing game. Besides, dragging a loveless relationship may be even more severe a pain for both parties.

There is simply no distinct line drawn between who and wats right and wrong in the collapse of any form of relationship.To those who simply loves to classify and judge other ppl 's relationship are simply not worth our one second worth of anger. They are just oblivious to how a homosapien ticks. its rather pathetic.

After my fair share of experiences in break ups, sometimes, the best way to deal with it is to listen to our heart, Never doubt that tiny voice within.

"Consequences are for one to bear.
Pain is for time to heal.
Friends are here, to tide over it with you.
Everything has its place, in its time. In its place."

I believe in this. I hope all of you do as well.

Nites everyone.