Would You?
Does anyone feels queasy when your friends update news of your ex's and, perhaps, their latest squeeze? I got affected momentarily today when i was chatting with a friend when i heard news of so and so? It was a moment of hmm.. and after which I just let it go. I believe ppl ends their entanglement and become ex's when both parties fail to meet to a common goal eventually or when fireworks fizzle. To whether both parties can forged a platonic friendship, i reckon not. If both could get along that well and agree unanimously, wat relevance to break up in the first place? if sex fizzles, relationship can go open, but when communication cease to exist, what platform to build even any friendship on?
Word of the day : Flaunt
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Just got back from the club, Happy. It's hilarious ppl watching with all the campy music roaring . Refreshing new and alien to me these days. It has been really a long time. But like wat i conclude, its better than cooping myself at home. Above that, i want to spend more time wif kian. Saw A.C.K just now. Its always such. Someone that has always been at the back of ur mind but just dun wish to cross path with , will just appear right in front of you. Perhaps that is God's way of wanting me to deal with things that i wanna avoid. Indeed, i am such - Worming back to my nutshell when i cant handle situations. Anyway, for anyone who has known me for moon years, will know who he is.He is The guy that shattered my heart some time back. It was french opera played thru my life. I still get all queasy whenever somone irks out his name. Its something i never want to face. at least not in the near future.
At this juncture, or more after the HK trip, its more with career and my loved ones, given utmost priority. I need to keep this focus till things seems more tangible. Not that i m ruling out the 'L' word, but its just not as important now.
i 'd better turn in. i got a long day ahead. Nites folk.
"有爱的人，把一辈子锁在爱恨情结里。
直到痛彻心扉之后，才了然破茧而出的美丽。
原来，幸福是懂得放手才开始的。"
Extract from my Febuary post, contributed by Babe
Word of the day : Flaunt
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Just got back from the club, Happy. It's hilarious ppl watching with all the campy music roaring . Refreshing new and alien to me these days. It has been really a long time. But like wat i conclude, its better than cooping myself at home. Above that, i want to spend more time wif kian. Saw A.C.K just now. Its always such. Someone that has always been at the back of ur mind but just dun wish to cross path with , will just appear right in front of you. Perhaps that is God's way of wanting me to deal with things that i wanna avoid. Indeed, i am such - Worming back to my nutshell when i cant handle situations. Anyway, for anyone who has known me for moon years, will know who he is.He is The guy that shattered my heart some time back. It was french opera played thru my life. I still get all queasy whenever somone irks out his name. Its something i never want to face. at least not in the near future.
At this juncture, or more after the HK trip, its more with career and my loved ones, given utmost priority. I need to keep this focus till things seems more tangible. Not that i m ruling out the 'L' word, but its just not as important now.
i 'd better turn in. i got a long day ahead. Nites folk.
"有爱的人，把一辈子锁在爱恨情结里。
直到痛彻心扉之后，才了然破茧而出的美丽。
原来，幸福是懂得放手才开始的。"
Extract from my Febuary post, contributed by Babe
posted by The Aspiring Himbo at 7/10/2005 10:17:00 PM
1 Comments:
perhaps communication don exist on the level of a relationship but that platform actually exists in terms of friendship? perhaps the platform that 2 people have built their love on has corroded and becomes a more subtle form of friendship? at the same time, i feel friendship can be defined on many levels, it can simply be hi-bye friends and as we move up the intensity to friends that we hold close to our hearts. lastly, the way different people handle situations and the influence of emotional states are factors we need to consider when forming views and opinions and friendships. anyone has any thoughts?
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