feelin bad

I feel so bad. I just told someone off just now, without my thought, simply berating venom to him..
To be exact, this neighbour of mine , who lives in the opposite block. My reservist mate.

He happens to be JUST married with a few months old. Apparently, he has been asking me out whenever his wife is out of town . Sometimes , think he will go overboard like cooking dinner and buying food for me. Initially, i tried to be oblivious to him. He really is a nice chap..but think he got out of hand these days..he just hit the wrong chord just now, when he called me over for a drink.

Here goes :

Me : What's up? Where's your wife?
Him : She is out wif frens. Wanna come out for dinner? I cooked extra.
Me : Why did you cook when ur wife is out eating?
Him : You mentioned this is your lieu period, so thot you will be free for dinner?
Me : But i hust ate dinner wif my fren. Next time ok?
Him: Your gf huh?
Me: No. Fren.
Him: No bluff lah..
Me: [fuming] G, are you gay?
Him : No
Me: Then you are a bi?
Him : [after a while] Hmm..i think so..
Me : what the fark are you bloody married then? You just have a baby girl!!! Havent you give it a thought? Do you wanna screw your bloody life just because you are bloody bisexual! You have a great job, Great wife. Family! Dun screw it up!
Him : i am just curious..
Me : Then stop being curious..it will do you no good! Trust me G! I meant you no harm!
Him: I have to put down the phone..

Before i can say another word, the line went dead. His voice sounded hoarse at the end.

Instantly, i felt i shouldnt be so harsh. Who on earth am i to judge what's right or worng for him? I cant even handle mine!

Henceforth , i text him apologizing for my harsh tone, reiterating my good intentions. He did not reply.

Think i just lost a fren here. Sigh..Impulsive me..